Dating is difficult enough if you have to rely on someone else to do it with, but having a date with yourself can be fun and infinitely satisfying. By nurturing yourself in the dating process, you can treat yourself exactly like you want and deserve to be treated. The personal love fest starts now!
Instructions
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After you have found the perfect spot, you want to shop for a shallow bowl that matches your decor. The garden section is a good place to start, though remember that the bowl must not have a hole in the bottom as most planters do. A ceramic bowl, or a terra cotta bowl is an excellent choice.
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Next, pick out some rocks or stones that you like. The smooth ones are lovely and come in an assortment of colors. You need enough to fill your bowl.
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A water feature cannot work without a fountain pump. They are usually found in the garden section of popular Home Improvement stores. The best pump is the small fountain pump (Beckett is an excellent choice) that is 120V, 60mz, and 4 watts. The pump comes with a little piece that fits in the spout, however, if you find you need more height for the flow, you may have to get a piece of tubing that will fit in the spout. Most likely, you will not have to get tubing.
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When putting your water feature together, place the fountain pump on the bottom of the bowl in the center. There are suction cups to keep the pump in place. Fill the bowl with rocks and cover the pump. Make sure to leave room open around the spout for the water flow.
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Fill the bowl completely so the pump is submerged and the water covers the rocks or comes to just under the top layer. The water flow is adjustable. You might want to do a test by the sink when you first plug in your fountain to avoid spraying water on your furniture. The flow does not have to be strong. A bubbling effect is lovely, and you can move the rocks to enhance the sound and flow.
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The plug will drape over the side of the bowl towards the back and is usually not noticeable, however, you can hide it with the use of artificial plants.
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Make sure the flow aims towards the room and not out the back. That will help to bring wealth and prosperity into your life.
Do you love flowers? You don't need to wait for someone to buy them for you. Having fresh flowers in your home or on your nightstand will nurture your soul and heart. It's a sweet indulgence that is not expensive, and hugely valuable when dating yourself.
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Having dinner by candlelight does not have to be saved for special occasions. When making dinner for yourself, set the table, light some candles, and put on some of your favorite music. Eating alone does not mean you have to stand at the counter and wolf down some food. Grab your favorite book, and enjoy your meal.
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Is there a restaurant or movie you want to see? Make a date with yourself to do both. You can pick a restaurant you have always wanted to try, and see a movie that's been high on your list. While dining you have the choice to interact with other patrons, or sit quietly and people watch. The main thing is to enjoy the time doing what you like to do, and feel comfortable and powerful doing it.
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Whether you want to spend the day at the beach, try out a new cafe', or attend a concert or a play, you can create memorable dates for yourself. Never put off something you want to do because no one else wants to go. By putting yourself first, you will have a life full of rich experiences and memories, and your confidence levels will soar.
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NOTE FROM THE AUTHOR: I have had the best time on dates that I have had with myself. From dinners and movies to seeing The Rolling Stones and The Who, to hiking, sightseeing, and traveling, my life has been enriched a thousand fold.
Tips & Warnings
When
dining alone for the first time, bring a book along. Even if you don't read it,
it helps if you feel self-conscious.
Enjoy
your date with yourself. It's all about YOU!
Try
new things. You never know who you will meet along the way.
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